How to Have A Long-lasting Relationship? Be An Asset Rather Than Liability

How to have a long lasting relationship

Have you met the man of your dreams, having the same wavelength as you, and told yourself, “he’s the one”? It’s so nice to be on cloud nine. However, there’s this tiny bit of fear knocking from time to time. As you look ahead in the future, questions pop up. Doubts like “until when?” or … Read more

Should You Enjoy Life or Work Hard in Your 20s?

One day, you will wonder whether you’re on the right track in life or have taken the wrong route. New mantras keep popping up and now you’re lost which ones to follow. Which motivational speaker should you believe? Would you believe the ones who say “enjoy your life to the fullest” or those who gravitate … Read more

3 Common Misconceptions about Law of Attraction (and How To Do it Right)

It was previously on a high-rise trend and has hurt my eyes for a while. My Facebook friends shared motivational posts that intend to haul themselves up. Law of Attraction lines, per se. Scripts such as: “One day, I will have my own XXX…” “Soon, people will see me succeed…” “Law of Attraction — Someday, I will … Read more

6 Things to Do When You Think You’re a Failure

Asking yourself, “why am I a failure?” describes how much of your goals have drifted away from the initial plan. You’re not failing. Failure may have halted your plans and dreams. But on the contrary, it has also set you a step forward to where you’re meant to be.  Even though it’s not necessarily what … Read more

7 Best Books for Improved Time Management Skills

Psychologist William Knause estimated that a whopping 90% of college students procrastinate. About 25% of them have issues with time management and drop out of school. In 2018, Rescue Time’s research states that on average, people spend 3 hours and 15 minutes a day (49.4 days per year) using their phones. We get a lot … Read more

How to Cope with Too Many Interests

How to Cope with Interest-Hopping

It was in 2013 when I first recognized how interests gravely impact the course of our lives. Being a random and spontaneous person with too many interests, I was clueless about where I would end up.  I was an Architecture student back then. It wasn’t even my first choice — well, I didn’t have a first choice. … Read more

What is Quarter-life Crisis and How to Deal With It

“Am I having a quarter-life crisis?” The fact you’re reading this means you probably are. And you’re seeking a solution. Maybe you’re frustrated about life, careers, and relationship. Let’s face it. There’s no one way-get away solution for this. But allow me to guide you about these quarter-life circumstances. I vividly remember the tearful days … Read more

How to Deal with Excessive Self-consciousness

“I am one of the world’s most self-conscious people. I really have to struggle.” — Marilyn Monroe “I’m not shy!” I defended. “You only talk when you’re spoken to,” he said. “That doesn’t mean I’m shy. I just have nothing to say.” “If you’re not shy about it, then why can’t I talk to them?” “Because … Read more